Nowadays it seems there’s a howto for almost everything, and I’m not talking about technical stuff.
It reminds me of a song by **Bad Religion**, called //No Direction//, that goes like this:
> everyone is looking for something\\
> and they assume somebody else knows what it is\\
> no one can live with the decisions of their own\\
> it seems so they look to someone else\\
> to tell ’em what to be\\
> tell ’em what to wear\\
> tell ’em what to say\\
> tell ’em how to act and think and compel others compulsively\\
> until the world is all like them\\
**Note to Self**: I only have one life to spend so I might as well spend it being myself.